Wednesday, November 12, 2014

Some Thrifty First Birthday Party Tips!

There I was on the night she was born holding my baby Elle in the hospital- stroking her buttery soft skin, looking deeply into her eyes, still with their "newborn blue" hue and imagining. . .
her first birthday party, of all things!

I can't begin to tell you why my mind went there.  Maybe it's my real love of hosting others in our home, of all things gold and glittery, or maybe I was already secretly anxious about keeping up with our Pinterest crazed world's new idea of what a first birthday party must be.  Regardless, my crazy, sleep deprived brain went there....on day ONE of her life!!

Somehow, though, as the months went on, it faded in its importance.  (Or maybe got slightly interrupted by real life- diaper changes, long nights, doctors visits...you know, all the stuff that never makes a Pinterest board.)  In fact, I never gave it a second thought until a few weeks before the big event.  I like to think we were too busy making memories to spend precious hours crafting party favors and designing invitations.
But when it came right down to it, I did want it to be special!


With a little creativity, a few trips to Michaels and a LOT of imperfections, Elle's party came together relatively quickly.
So for any other new moms who, like me, want to keep it simple, classy, special but somewhat inexpensive, here's some tips that I hope will help:

1.  Skip the expensive cake.  Most likely your sweet one won't smash it at all.  When I was first scrambling to find the perfect cake, I called several bakeries in town.  Most quoted me $75 or more to feed our 15 guests and a small cake for Elle.
Not realistic! (for us at least)

Plan B....call Publix (or a similar grocery instead).  They usually only require a 24 hour notice and will make a cake exactly to your specifications if at all possible.  In our case, I wanted the cake to be symbolic of the party as a whole - simply yet stylish.
With this in mind, I had them skip the fancy decorations, edible flowers, and Disney toppers.  Instead, we got a a PLAIN WHITE CAKE.  I figured I could take it from there.
The kind-eyed older lady behind the bakery counter must have felt sorry for Elle:
"You mean no color at all?  Not even some pink balloons on top?"
"No, ma'am.  Just plain white please.  Thank you."
(Definitely not mother of the year in her book, I can tell you that!)
Opinions aside, she sweetly obliged and for $20, we had our white cake and a free smash cake for Elle!
After adding some of my own decorations and a touch of edible glitter from Michaels, we were on our way:


2.  Make it by hand! This was  hard for my Etsy-loving, non-crafty self.  But I just dove right in, knowing that it would be far from perfect and accepting that in my mind before-hand.  
(Working on giving up perfect these days, if you couldn't tell!)
I even let Elle join in on the fun and what could have been just a click of a button turned into a great mother-daughter experience.  
Don't get me wrong, I'll be back, Etsy.

These are inexpensive letters from Michael's that I spray painted gold.
And then added some extra tissue paper from the tassels that I made for the backs of the chairs:
(see below)
The tassels probably cost $5 max but added a great pop of color to otherwise seating.
Here's a quick and easy TUTORIAL on how to make these!

Next, I bought some colorful felt and cut quick shapes and letters to dress up Elle's chair a bit.
The chair, by the way, was hiding in our garage!  It was its original brown color; but nothing a quick can of spray paint couldn't fix (I believe the color is Valspar's Catalina Mist).

3.  Fill the room with people you love and that love your baby well...they'll forgive you if the food isn't exactly perfect.

We opted for a Southern BBQ theme.  We were able to feed 15 people for about sixty dollars!
Our menu:
-Homemade barbecue and sauce (made by my talented husband)
-Corn on the cob
-Collard Greens
-Baked Beans
-Crock Pot Mac n' Cheese

Nothing fancy....but what we all really wanted was cake anyways, right Elle?


 4.  Shop your house for decorations:
To add a hint of gold, I sacrificed a few of our ball jars that we have laying around the house.  If nothing else, I can pull them back out at Christmas.
The table runner is an unused drop cloth that was hiding beneath some piles of fabric in my closet.

This high chair got a makeover and added just the right pop of color to balance out all of that pink!

"Ellie" the Elephant added some whimsical charm and pink straws are always a good idea!

Elle's wagon held gifts and was very helpful in containing them all after she'd opened them as well.

An old ladder that usually holds baby blankets in her room, showcased a year's worth of Elle pics for the guests to remember.

5.  Take some time to thank the ones that have made this first year so much more wonderful!
Because, really...it takes a village!


Each of our guests were greeted with a small gift....a Shutterfly book of Elle's first year highlights along with a letter thanking them for all that they've done to make this the best year of our lives!
I wanted to be purposeful in making this day - not just about Elle- but about the appreciation we feel towards all that love her so well. 
As I heard one of my favorite authors- Shauna Niequist- say at a conference a few weeks ago:
"When people leave your home, the heart of hospitality is for them to feel better about themselves and not better about you."
Because at the end of the day, it was never about the decorations, the cake, the food, or even the budget...it was about creating a warm space for those who love our daughter so well to be appreciated, to be loved, and to be nourished.  
THAT is what made this day special!
Well, that....and this sweet thing:

Happy Party Planning!


Wednesday, July 16, 2014

My ABC's of Home Decor

Maybe it's because I spend most of my days reading ABC books, singing the ABC song, or even practicing ABC sign language with Baby Elle; but I thought it would be fun to compile my favorite interior design trends, shops & resources into ABC's .... 
Crisp Interiors style.
Allow me to introduce to you my favorite sources and trends:
A is for Anthropologie ....
as if it could be anything else
I'm in love with their rug selection.... this one {Kiara rug} was a contender for Elle's "big girl room."

B is for Brass....
It's back in a big way and I can't stop dreaming of it in our kitchen remodel.

C is for Celadon Home...
my idea of the perfect store.  Located in Mt. Pleasant, S.C. - it's the most wonderful mix of eclectic elegance.  
**They even have a huge warehouse with lots of scratch & dents pieces that can be scored for major discounts **

D is for Domino Magazine....
my guilty pleasure and greatest source of inspiration
Basically it was Pinterest before there was Pinterest.
It went away for a while; but I couldn't be happier that it's BACK!


E is for Etsy...
and because we all know it's easy to fall into the black hole abyss of all of Etsy's goodness, I've narrowed down some of my favorite shops:
{EarthCadets: that's where you can find these fun pillows.
BrandMeBeautiful: love her for helping me with this blog design.
PaperPleaseStudio: for the most dreamy business cards around.
TheDedicationCompany: for the sweetest lockets with personalized notes inside
PBandJBabyChic: for the sweetest baby gifts - the wonderful owner will customize just about anything for your little love}


F is for Furbish Studio....
The Queen of Pattern Mixing, Jamie Meares of Furbish Studio gets it right, every single time.
Check out their store for TONS of inspiration!
{it'll make you instantly happy, I promise.}

G is for Grasscloth Wallpaper....
especially with a subtle hint of metallic.
Several of my favorite sources are Phillip Jefferies, Burke Decor & Thibaut

H is for House of Belonging...
one of my favorite Etsy shops, these fun prints sure can make a room.
We just ordered this one in gold for Elle's "big girl room"

I is for IKEA...
especially when you're in the mood for modern and black & whites, Ikea is the way to go.
Lately, I'm loving this rug and am so tempted to design a whole room around it- though I couldn't come close to the perfection of this room by John Jacob Interiors.
{see my previous blog post for all of my favorite Ikea finds}


J is for John Robshaw...
if Jamie Meares of Furbish Studio is Queen of Pattern Mixing, John Robshaw is most certainly the King of Textiles.  His prints and patterns are smart, stylish, yet so livable!
Seen here in the home of Brooke Shields, his fabrics are perfect for pillows and upholstered pieces alike.


K is for Kilim....
a perfect way to bring color into an otherwise neutral space, these rugs are rich with history.
{see my previous post on kilim rugs for a complete run-down of their history and my favorite sources}


L is for Layla Grayce...
featuring over 400 brands, LG always seems to get it right!
I'm especially in love with this Oly Studio Meri Drum Chandelier:



M is for Millie + Marge
OK so it's not home related at all...but I just had to share my gorgeous friend and her equally gorgeous jewelry with you all.  Check out Courtney's facebook page here for some boho chic pieces that you'll want to style every outfit around: 
{https://www.facebook.com/millieandmarge}

N is for Navy {Walls}...
A subtle and chic splash of color that makes small spaces come to life.
{Benjamin Moore's Hale Navy is always a winner in my book}

O is for Oushak...
Not to be confused with Kilim Rugs, these Turkish beauties are known for use of silky wool. 
My favorites are those with a faded look, as if they have been used for centuries before.
I've found my favorite Oushaks at flea markets from dealers who import directly from Turkey.
However, there are some great finds on Ebay, Etsy, and One Kings Lane {where this pale blue runner was spotted.}

P is for Pastels....
they were all over the Spring market, proving that they're not just for little girls rooms any longer.

R is for Restoration Hardware...
a go-to for "forever pieces" and nursery inspiration.
They take neutral to a whole new level of beautiful.
{and thanks to Elle's Aunt Anna, we love having this rocking sheep in the nursery at our house}

S is for Serena & Lily...
Originally  known for their fabulous nursery decor, the Serena & Lily duo has expanded their horizons to all parts of the home: bedding, art, decor, kids rooms - you name it!
I do believe I could decorate my entire home with just their products.
I'm loving these fun and livable kids chairs for Elle right now.

T is for Teepee's...
{in kids rooms of course.}
I've found so many that I love for Elle on Etsy - but they look super easy DIY as well.

V is for Victoria Hagan Interiors...
a designer for the ages, Ms. Hagan gets it right every.single.time.
Her signature furniture line is equally as lovely.

W is for West Elm...
currently dreaming of their cushy Kasbah rug.


Y is for Your Own Home....
one of my favorite decorating tips is "shop your own home"
When you need to give a space new life, start with a blank slate and then shop around until you find the perfect medley of treasures.  Just present them in a new way.
You won't have spent any money and you'll feel like a true HGTV star!


Z is for Z Gallerie...
I always pop over here when I need a quick shot of inspiration.  
Their unique and quirky style always leaves me wishing I had an unlimited budget.
{Especially for things like this perfect office desk}

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Now...for those of you loyal readers who made it all the way from A to Z.....thank you for hanging in there with me for the longest post ever!  
**Bonus points for some suggestions for the letters I left out** 
 I struggled with Q, U, & X
Would love to hear your favorites for these though.

Now, off to sing some ABC's with my girl!
Happy Hunting!

Friday, July 11, 2014

Moroccan Tile Has My Heart

Is it just me or are all kitchens starting to look the same?  Why is it that other rooms in our homes are unique and speak to our own personal styles; yet so many of our kitchens look absolutely identical?  When it comes to the kitchen, why have we all {including me} bought into the idea that we must choose between subway tiles and those tiny mosaic glass tiles that already seem outdated?
**Disclaimer: I do love a subway tile back splash - in fact, we have it in our own kitchen.
HOWEVER, I can't help but be drawn to something different when it comes to back splashes.

Enter: Moroccan tiles.

{via Elle Decor}

Game changer for sure!


{via House Beautiful}

Perhaps my favorite supplier of these beautiful and unique tiles is Tabarka Studio.
I've spent hours {way too many hours} dreaming of the perfect tile to spice up our kitchen.
These are a few of my favorites:








{images via Tabarka Studio}

All of these tiles are hand glazed and colors can even be customized.
Guaranteed to make your kitchen one of a kind.

Now, being a lover of all things simple, CRISP, and mostly white, I don't know if I am brave enough just yet to take the plunge and do an entire back splash in tile. 
Baby steps, right?

What I do love is the idea of just an accent pop!
Although this is obviously not a kitchen, just an accent of tile can certainly pack quite the punch.

Or even provide understated elegance on the floor:
{via Lonny}

The only catch?
They ARE a bit pricey!
HOWEVER, there is a more affordable solution:
Glass arabesque tiles such as these pictured above aren't completely unaffordable.
Even stores like Home Depot are carrying it for roughly $12/sq. foot.
Although my favorite source for {marble} arabesque is:
Mission Stone & Tile.
Wonderful selection but slightly higher prices.
You win some, you lose some, right?

How about you....Do you love this look?
What are some other ways you make your kitchen uniquely yours?